Six Degrees To.........Cocotte?

I recently discovered that college daughter's math professor is someone I knew 25 years ago. He was in my church youth group in junior and senior high. My family attended a mega-church then and one of the benefits was having lots of youth group activities. There was always a ski trip, canoe adventure, or amusement park outing to sign up for. What was really cool for me was getting to know people outside of my own high school. I'd guess that our core group represented about 30 different high schools.

Later on, in college and at various jobs, I'd meet people and ask where they were from. And if they were from the tri-county area, I'd almost always be able to say, "oh, did you know so and so from your high school?" It's amazing how small the world really is. And often times, it was fun to see their reaction of, "you've heard of my high school?" Which I always found surprising. I guess some people don't get out much and enjoy hibernating in their own little microcosm of the world.

My husband is such a person. Before I met him, he'd probably dated about eight other girls, with a few being serious..........BUT, they were all from his hometown! I thought that was really bizarre. He says he always hated the first day of school and starting a new job, because he finds it difficult to have conversations with new people.

In contrast, I have always loved meeting new people. A party where I won't know a single soul? I'm there! And more than likely, I'll leave with a new best friend. I've always found it easy to connect with people and I am fascinated with the concept of only being six degrees away from anyone else in the world. That's probably why blogging is so much fun for many of us. I enjoy seeing bloggers I "know" on a variety of different blogs. And I'll bet it wouldn't take long for some of us to connect to someone we know in real life, through knowing a friend of a friend of a friend.

Whenever we go places, my kids become exasperated with me because I will see someone I know and stop to chat. They always say, "Mom knows everybody." I like to tell them, "that's right - so you'd better watch what you're doing because there will always be someone who can report back to me." And chances are, that someone could be you, dear reader!

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  1. I've always been fascinated by that whole 'Six Degrees' thing. Once, back in the 90s, a buddy and I worked out our 'six degrees' to Mikhail Gorbachev. . .

    And, on our honeymoon, Molly and I ran into no less than two of my high school classmates. . .

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  2. It wouldn't surprise me at all if some of us shared some acquaintence. The world is small enough that it seems unlikely that we'd not!

    I have one of those social butterfly friends. I swer to you, no matter where we go or what we're doing, he will know someone else there, even if it's just in passing, and because he knows them, he'll stop and talk with them forever. I've even been places without him, and someone will start talking about 'this guy I know,' and I'll ask if that guy's name happens to be Shawn. More often than not, we end up talking about Shawn. He's my ice breaker for those times when I'm more social caterpillar than social butterfly!

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  3. some of the chance meetings are truly bizarre. when i was in SD i met a lutheran minister who had gone to seminary with my cousin. i'm from PA and my cousin is from OH. whoda thunk it?

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  4. Yeah, this is all why I'd prefer not to go shopping with Queenie. She will always run across someone and chat for endless ages. Oh, and usually I have to introduce myself 'cuz she gets so tied up in converse.

    It is not uncommon for her to go to the store for 3-4 items and not return for 2-3 hours because of all of the people she stops to chat with.

    22 years ago we headed off on our honeymoon in Florida (1200 miles away) and she found two people she knew there. And chatted with 'em for over an hour. It was a sign of things to come!

    She's like you cocotte, she can find new friends anywhere, anytime.

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  5. It gets even worse (the whole six degrees thing) when you live in a small town.

    I'm related to like have the city. It sucks for the dating life.

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  6. everywhere we go we run into someone who either knows my wife or her family.

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  7. Desmond - six degrees to Gorby? I think you need to post on that!

    FADKOG - we have a friend like your Shawn; we call him "Kramer"

    Lime - I remember when my Dad ran into someone he knew when we were at Carlsbad Caverns. It's funny to hear of other people meeting up in the middle of nowhere.

    Xavier - maybe Queenie forgets their names and that's why she doesn't introduce you? That happens to me. I've also had to hide from people when I'm shopping if I'm in a hurry. Otherwise, a quick trip to the store does turn into an hour long experience.

    Mama Dawg - I can see how that is hard on the dating life. My Mom was from a very small town and said that everyone in her graduating class was a cousin.

    RS - well, at least you're married to someone famous :)

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  8. Oh, it's not really quite as exotic as all that. We had a friend who was quite the political gadfly, and it wasn't hard to get from him to Ronald Reagan. And once you get Reagan, you get Gorby. . .

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  9. If you love meeting new people, you obviously need to get to this blogger gathering next month...

    I progressed from small schools to big schools throughout life. Tiny school from kindergarten through 8th grade -- my 8th grade class was 13 people. Then to a public high school, about 200 in my class. Then I went to college, where there were at least 10,000 in my freshman class.

    I like the people I know, and I have a good-sized circle of friends, but I still don't care much for having to make NEW friends. I don't dread it, but it's still a hassle at a new job. That's the point of having close friends -- so you don't have to try to make so many new ones! :-)

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  10. Desmond - I miss Ronnie!

    FTN - college daughter almost went to college near the blogger meeting spot. It would have been a great excuse to make it.

    That's a huge college class. Were you a Buckeye?

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  11. LOL!! - Brings a whole new meaning to "Mom knows EVERYTHING; she has eyes in the back of her head!" lol

    I hear ya, tho, I'm a social b'fly, too -- RL friends stretched across the entire nation.
    Hey, we might only be 1 degree from each other in RL! eeps! LOL

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  12. LB - for some weird reason, I have to agree that we are only 1 or 2 degrees away from each other!

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