She Got Hitched Without a Hitch

I'm happy to report that the wedding happened, as did everything else that was supposed to take place.  The tuxes and dresses all fit, the flowers were absolutely gorgeous, the photographers (a married couple) couldn't have been nicer or more professional, the reception venue and staff were incredibly accommodating to our guests, the DJ and announcer were fabulous, the food was delicious and the cake was an original!

Well, the weather sucked, but that's to be expected!

An unbelievable amount of work went into the making of the baseball theme and I will try to post photos of the highlights another time. We received compliment after compliment, and when we dropped off everything (six large boxes and two big bags) to the venue (a week and a half ago already), the owner told me he had never met a more organized family. Go us!

Here are some snapshot memories that I will always remember:

Seeing my daughter walk into the bride's room in the church basement, with her hair and makeup professionally done. She was stunning, even in her yoga pants and tank top.

Walking the florist to the groomsmen's room......I called out, "Is everybody dressed?" and when I heard someone yell back, "No" and everyone laughed, I walked right in. They were sitting around, eating bananas and playing cards.

Running up and down the stairs to peek into the back of the sanctuary and report back to my daughter on who was there. I was so excited to see everyone and it reminded me of my own wedding.

Waiting behind the closed doors of the sanctuary with my son, before he walked me down the aisle. He kept looking at me and smiling (probably because I mentioned numerous times over the last year that I was most worried about crying when he walked me down the aisle).

Actually walking down the aisle and seeing all our friends and family smiling. Best feeling in the world! I was on the verge of tears, but I held back.

Seeing the ring bearers (nephews of the groom) walking down the aisle, one carrying the pillow by a string, and the other hauling his big red Clifford!

Seeing my husband walk my daughter down the aisle. Priceless! She has always been his pride and joy and out of our three kids, he probably spent the most time with her. I know how hard it was for both of them. She had a huge smile plastered to her face, while her eyes were filled with tears.

Watching the Maid of Honor (Middle Child) holding on to the groom's ring on her thumb, while trying to adjust the bride's train. She took her job seriously, although she cried during the entire ceremony (I hadn't even thought that would happen, or I would have supplied her with tissues).

Hearing my son (one of the groomsmen) do a reading. He was so handsome in his tux and I've missed him so much. Proud Mama Moment.

Seeing the bride and groom hold both of their hands together the entire ceremony. I could see the looks of encouragement he was giving her. So sweet! They were also amusing, how LOUD they did their vows, thanks to both of them working with an aging population. People commented to me that it was the first time they've actually been able  to hear a couple say their vows. And the church is a cathedral.

Me, shouting out everyone's name in greeting, in the receiving line. I was beyond giddy.

Watching everyone blow bubbles outdoors......I stayed in between the double doors and my teeth were still chattering (literally). It was a cold, windy 47 degrees. I do not know how those bridesmaids (and bride) stood outside for so long doing pictures before and after. While they were out there, we saw snow pellets coming down on the sidewalk.

Hearing Middle Child's Maid of Honor speech. She told stories of  her sister, and offered advice to the groom. She.was.hilarious!!!! You wouldn't think a person with autism would be great at giving speeches, but she has always done well with presentations, etc. She was the talk of the reception.

Dancing with all my friends. My daughter came up to us and said, "I didn't know my mom's friends were so much fun!" We know how to get our groove thing on.

Saying bon voyage to the bride and groom..............

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  1. I'm glad to hear everything went off without a hitch! This makes me think of the day I will walk my own daughter down the aisle. Sniff...

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  2. Sincere, hearty congratulations to your daughter and her hubs! The adventure begins! Sounds like you all had a lot of fun.

    Perhaps we'll get around to getting some of our kids married, one day. . . You never know. . .

    ;)

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    1. You've been waiting longer than is to be expected, haven't you? What are some of them waiting on?

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    2. Well, my two oldest girls have spent significant portions of their 20s. . . how shall I say it? . . . losing their minds. And, without going into too much of a rant, our society is not doing a good job of making husband-caliber young men in great numbers, these days.

      We were at a talk at church recently, and the speaker said (words to the effect of): "Some of you want grandchildren so badly, you're pushing your kids into hasty marriages." And I thought, we already have the grandchildren. . .

      ;)

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    3. I laughed out loud at your thought! Hmmmm....I can't think of anyone I know who really wants either grandchildren or a strong desire for their kids to marry the first Bob or Sue who comes along.

      Oddly enough, I've seen a big shift since I was that age. We dated around and had multiple relationships before settling down. None of my friends or family married their first BF or GF. Today, it seems like they latch on and either move in together or marry the first person who shows interest.

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  3. That was a nice post. You sound like you're brimming with emotion. Best of luck to them.

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    1. It was hard saying goodbye to her and then to my son the next day (going back to college). He won't be back till Thanksgiving; hopefully see my daughter before that! Ha!

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  4. OMG...I was grinning from ear to ear reading this post! And I also got teary-eyed reading how teary-eyed your daughter got walking down the aisle with her father. And let me tell you, had I been there I would have been crying because weddings always do that to me.

    Sounds like everything went well and smoothly and that everyone had a GREAT time! Yaaaaaaahoooo!

    "Seeing the ring bearers (nephews of the groom) walking down the aisle, one carrying the pillow by a string, and the other hauling his big red Clifford!"

    OMG...how CUTE!

    And I love that you used bubbles instead of rice because bubbles are more more fun and celebatory!

    "It was a cold, windy 47 degrees. I do not know how those bridesmaids (and bride) stood outside for so long doing pictures before and after. While they were out there, we saw snow pellets coming down on the sidewalk."

    Yikes! That was COLD. I can't believe you already have temps. in the 40's!

    Thanks so much for sharing this post because I was waiting to hear all about it.

    CONGRATULATIONS to the bride and groom!

    X

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    1. I'm surprised I held back the tears, but I've been on a good hormonal run lately!

      That big red dog always cracks me up! I'll email you a photo if one turns up. Most churches no longer allow rice here....it's bubbles or birdseed.
      We are back in the 50s again, which I don't like!

      Thanks for sharing in our joy!

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  5. sounds like a great day, and you are obviously a very proud mum (mom).

    well done

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  6. Such amazing moments!!! I think bubbles are THE thing now. We had them at my second wedding. At my first wedding, we did birdseed and that stuff gets everywhere. Congratulations!!!

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    1. Rice was bad too......it made its way to Canada on me on our honeymoon!

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  7. Congrats, glad all went well and that a great time was had by all!

    The rice is amazing. When we got out Mum In Laws dress for their 50th recently some rice fell out of the lace. yeah, it's everywhere.

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  8. PS- looking forward to the pics

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    1. Thank you, sir. I only have the one I posted from the photographer right now. Have to wait till the honeymooners return so I can get a link to the rest.

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    2. So, how's Mom-in-law feeling? ;-)

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    3. I'm doing well....it feels like the week after Christmas though.

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    4. Give it a year or so, it'll pass .. ;-)

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  9. Congratulations to your daughter and her husband! Seemed like it was a perfect day with lots of memories that will be remembered and talked about for a very long time!

    betty

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    1. I'm excited to see them next week to rehash everything.

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  10. Oh, this is so great, Bijoux! Congratulations and blessings on the your daughter, her husband and your entire family!

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  11. Congrats! This must be such an amazing feeling! So glad to hear it went so well! I cannot wait to see the pictures!

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    1. Thanks so much, Shae. I thought you might enjoy the one in this post of them holding baseballs.

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  12. Congratulations on a lovely wedding! I think I especially like the the bit about your middle child's speech. :)

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    1. Her sister texted her at 5 am from the airport to thank her and tell her how proud she was of her for that.

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  13. Oh this just makes me cry. What a joyful post! I can feel the love throughout this whole post. It makes me so happy. Happy tears.
    I am so glad you wrote down all those moments (and shared them with us). They are special moments, indeed. They touched my heart. I can imagine how special they were to you.
    I remember my mom walking into the bride's room at the back of church about 15 minutes before my ceremony began. She just couldn't hold back her tears. It was just so overwhelming to her to see all our friends and family come from near and far to offer their love and support. It touched her so. Made her cry. And her tears made me cry. Your comments reminded me of that sweet moment, so thank you for that. :)

    Congratulations to the newly weds! I wish them a long and happy life together!


    -and special CONGRATS to the Made of Honor. Impressive and inspiring too. Well done! :)

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    1. I knew you would enjoy this post! I'm glad the post brought back fond memories for you.

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  14. Glad it all went off so well! So is confetti obsolete nowadays?

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    1. I have never seen confetti thrown at a bride and groom. Most places want something biodegradable thrown outside.

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  15. Congratulations to your daughter and son-in-law!!! It sounded like a perfectly wonderful day. I'm so happy for you and your family. Of course, now I'm thinking of my own daughter getting married... her 4th anniversary is this week. :)
    So sweet that Middle Child's speech was so funny, and well done!
    Thanks for sharing some memories of the day. Looking forward to seeing some photos!!!

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    1. Well, happy anniversary to your daughter! And thank you for the kind wishes.

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  16. This post is so beautiful--because of your honest joy and happy emotion. I'm just grinning for your entire family now. Congratulations!

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  17. Congrats to the bride and groom, it appears everything went perfect and as long as they are happy then it is perfect.

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  18. Oh my goodness... This post was so sweet. I'm so happy for you and your beautiful family! My oldest is 14, but your beautiful remarks make me look forward to many of the life changes to come. Wow. Congrats all around!

    Unleashing the Dreamworld

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