New Life

I took these photos a few days ago when it was 60 degrees. Last night, we got 6 inches of lake effect snow, so no more primroses, but they were lovely while they lasted.

Here are my chives that will be a couple of feet high by June.

Some daffodils pushing through the mulch.

Mushrooms are a sure sign of spring.

We've had a rough few weeks. My father-in-law passed away a week ago, after close to 20 years battling Parkinson's. It has been a steady decline for him since he suffered a stroke almost two years ago. A few weeks ago, he was no longer able to swallow, so hospice was called. After a week, he passed away peacefully at home. He lived a full life of 88 years. He was the son of an Italian immigrant who had come to America with nothing. After serving in the Korean War, my FIL earned a college degree, married and went on to have five children, 13 grandchildren and 2 great-grandchildren. He was buried at this beautiful veteran's cemetery. Note: Pictures below from their website.

This statue greets you at the entrance.

There are two of these shelters where the ceremony takes place. The walkway has military personnel standing at attention as the family follows the loved one's remains down to the shelter. The ceremony included shots fired from a rifle, Taps played on a trumpet, and a unfolding and folding of a flag that was given to my mother-in-law. It was a touching tribute.

I can't imagine a more lovely spot as a final resting place.

During all of this, my husband had a planned surgery that he's been waiting to have for months. We went back and forth about going through with it, and in the end, he had it done. So, there was that on top of everything else.

Here's to spring and new life and peaceful days ahead.
I will be around to visit all of you next week.

Comments

  1. So sorry to hear about your father-in-law. That was a long time battling Parkinson's. The cemetery is beautiful. And you're right, what a perfect spot as a final resting place. What a gorgeous photograph! The ceremony sounded lovely. I hope you and your family are okay.

    I also hope your husband is okay after his surgery. Please give him my best in a speedy recovery.

    Great to see you back. I too have been gone from blogging these past two weeks. My schedule at work changed, so I've been working crazy hours. Also, I got hit with the flu last week and it totally wiped me out. I actually took a day off from work because I was so sick. I feel much better now.

    Have a peaceful weekend, my friend!

    ((((((((((((( You )))))))))))))

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  2. My condolences on your father-in-law. As you know, my mother-in-law passed away recently, too. She is buried in the same cemetery as Lucille Ball.

    I hope life calms down for you now.

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  3. I am so sorry about your FIL. A valiant fight he fought. Seems like he lives a life well lived and left behind a great legacy. Beautiful place to be buried, I do agree. Hubby's dad/mom are buried in a military cemetery in Southern California. Very well maintained and so respectful of the deceased. I hope your hubby recovers quickly from surgery. Life goes on, plants will bloom and flourish, but its a new different "normal" when a loved one passes. Again, I am so sorry.

    betty

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  4. Bijoux, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Your father-in-law sounds like quite a guy and the ceremony must have been very moving--a fitting tribute for a soldier. Your family has certainly had some tribulations recently and I wish you all the very best.

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  5. First, I'm very sorry about your FIL. Parkinson's is a brutal disease.

    The signs of spring are hopeful, even if they are temporarily buried under snow. The daffodil shoots look like they working together to raise a roof.

    I hope your husband is healing up well from the surgery. Please relay my condolences on the loss of his father.

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  6. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father in law. He sounds like an amazing man. And yes, that looks like a gorgeous final resting place. Beautiful.
    Sending you and your family prayers of strength and comfort and also prayers for a quick recovery for your hubby

    This crazy weather is making me nuts. It is bringing out all kinds of sicknesses too. Let's hope the signs of spring show themselves again soon and this time stick around.

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  7. Sorry to hear about your FIL. But sure sounds like he lived a full life indeed. Hopefully the surgery went well too and spring has far more spring in its step going ahead.

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  8. So sorry about your father in law.

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  9. I am sorry for your loss. Your FIL sounds like he led a full life and had many years of happiness. In the end, that's all we can ever really hope for.

    Here's hoping you get another taste of spring weather soon.

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  10. That sounds like a very appropriate ceremony for an ex-soldier. But how sad that he had to fight Parkinson's for his last 20 years. So many have to endure debilitating illnesses rather than a quiet and uneventful end.

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  11. So sorry for your loss. 20 years is a long time to endure such a debilitating illness.

    We've seen lots of the little green shoots peeking up through the mulch. I just worry that it's too soon - there's bound to be another cold snap or two. . .

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  12. Sorry for your loss ...

    Happy that hubby's surgery went well ....

    Don't wish too hard for Spring, still have sap to boil!

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  13. Thanks for all your kind words and thoughts.

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  14. Sorry to hear about your father-in-law and at least you had some snow, even if it did do in some flowers. Enjoy life!

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  15. Like those daffodils pushing through the mulch.

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  16. Sorry to hear about the difficulties you've been facing. I hope that the coming of spring brings you healing and renewal. And seeing these photos of spring from my current perch near the Arctic Circle is making me all kinds of nostalgic.

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