The Right Fit

Some statistics:

In 2014, only 19.3% of people with autism in the U.S. were participating in the labor force.

35% of young adults (19-23 years) with autism have not had a job or received postgraduate education after leaving high school.

To continue with my previous post: After not having any luck in her next job search, my daughter heard from the preschool teacher where she did her student teacher the year prior. They were looking for an assistant to help out once a week. My daughter was quite hesitant. Some of you may remember that her student teaching didn't go so well, and there was a concern that she might not graduate at the time.

I assured her that the preschool teacher would not have contacted her if she didn't think she was capable of doing the job. Plus, a job is a job, and it would give her some experience. With some trepidation, she took the job and went for her background check. Thanks to modern technology, she was cleared for work . . . after a month's time! (Honestly, it makes me wonder about national security.)

So, she worked one full day a week for four months (till the end of the school year). It went okay, as far as we knew (more on that later). Since the teacher/director wasn't able to tell her if she'd still have a job in the fall, I told my daughter that she needed to continue looking. We concentrated on very local places, as the preschool was a half hour away, which took two hours out of my day just to get her there and back.

Last September, she struck gold! She got an interview at the library branch in our town for a page position. She had interviewed at another branch the previous year, so she knew what to expect as far as questions and testing. Plus, one of the interviewers knew her from when she was a teen volunteer at the library in high school. Within a week, they called and offered her the job!

It's been six months, and so far, so good. The people are nice, it's a safe environment, and she's using her brain, which is what I had hoped for in a job for her. She started out with 9 hours a week and is now at 13 (max is 15 for this position). During her review, the supervisor told her that she thought this job was "the right fit" for her. What a huge blessing this has been! It's boosted her self-confidence and she seems to really enjoy the variety of tasks. Maybe I will post about the actual work in the future.

She was also called back to work at the preschool, on an as-needed basis. Unfortunately, that hasn't gone as well. Someone we had consulted with had suggested that she keep a work diary at home about what stresses her on-the-job. I had forgotten about it, but a month ago she showed it to me. My husband and I were very disappointed with some of the things that have been said to her by her supervisor, as well as the lack of understanding. They know very well all about her disability, as she had made a full disclosure prior to student teaching. We've also felt that they have taken advantage of her in some ways, such as contacting her at 8 pm to see if she can work the next morning at 8 am and sending home tasks for her to do without pay. As it has gotten harder and harder for her to juggle both jobs, we told her it was okay with us if she quit the preschool job at the end of the school year this May. It will actually be a relief for me to not have to drive out there.

For now, she will concentrate on the library job and we will try not to worry too much about the future.

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  1. I bet she does better and better as her confidence grows.

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  2. That's terrific! I've always thought a library would be a very friendly and welcoming place to work. Plus, BOOKS! Good for her. :)

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    1. I know! I've always thought it would be a fun place to work. She likes to tell me about the strange books she comes across. Lol

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  3. The library sounds like the best by far out of the two, I think she will do much better there, Congratulations to her, she is going to do well.

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    1. Thanks, Jimmy. She truly seems to be thriving there.

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  4. That's AWESOME! I am so glad to hear that the job at the library is working out well for your daughter. Yahooo! "She started out with 9 hours a week and is now at 13 (max is 15 for this position)." That's FABULOUS! And judging from what you said about her supervisor saying that the job was the right fit, I have a feeling that your daughter may even grow in different positions they may give her in the future.

    HAPPY news, my friend! Wishing your daughter continued success!
    X

    P.S. You're such a wonderful mother!

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    1. Thank you so much, Ron. I have really appreciated your support over the years. It means a lot! XO

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  5. It does sound like a good fit for your daughter at the library. Not sure what her responsibilities are, but I always thought it would be fun to restack books and find their place back on the shelves. May it lead to even more opportunities in the future for her.

    betty

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    1. Yes, that is one of her responsibilities. Thank you, Betty!

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  6. Sounds like she found the perfect fit indeed. Ugg to stupid jobs that use people and don't pay anymore. Quit the pre-school one and tell them to stuff it, quietly at least haha

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    1. It was a shame about the preschool because she likes the kids and doesn't mind the actual work.

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  7. This sounds so difficult but I am glad that it is working well for her at the library and hopefully she can continue to build confidence on that.

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    1. Yes, it's good to find work that you enjoy AND the people are nice.

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  8. I'm sorry about the preschool, but that's really good to hear about the library. I hope that continues to be a great fit for her.

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    1. Yes, disappointing about the preschool, as I had hoped she could keep her foot in the door. But I suppose many people don't work in their major's field and I'm just glad she's not flipping burgers.

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  9. Sounds like she's making her way. Which, as a parent, is what you really want to see, isn't it?

    Good on you for helping her get there. . .

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    1. We all do what we've got to do as parents, which you certainly know!

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  10. Some employers love to take advantage of their employee's. My daughter quit her job last year after applying for another and got it. They were doing the same type of things like calling her at 4am on her day off and asking her to come in. I'm glad to hear your daughter found the library job she likes.

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    1. A 4 am call is absolutely ridiculous! I'm glad your daughter found another job too!

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  11. Sounds like the library job is working out well. As for the pre-school, I wonder if they were just finding sneaky ways of trying to edge her out. Calling her at 8 pm the previous evening? Unpaid home tasks? That's really out of order.

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    1. I wondered the same thing about the preschool.

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  12. I love how encouraging and supportive you are throughout this process. I am so glad that you told her it is okay to let go of the preschool job. It is not a positive experience, it doesn't sound fullfilling or supportive. There really is no need to put up with that situation as she has another job anyway. So glad that the library job it working out. It sounds like a good fit.

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    1. Disability or not, we just want our kids to be safe and happy, no matter their age!

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  13. Well good, seems like you're making progress. Keep plugging away Mom!

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    1. I'm hoping to rest on the status quo for a while now.

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    2. Understood. Both of our daughters ended up some where other than what they prepared for/planned but finding a good fit is more important some times, eh?

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  14. I'm so sorry, Bijoux. That pre-school experience sounds just awful. Some people get a little power and all they can do is take advantage of others. Luckily your daughter has fantastic parents supporting her.

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  15. I'm glad it worked out for your daughter at the library! It sounds like this will add to her experience as well as her confidence.

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  16. I'm struck again by how lucky your daughter is to have such supporting parents. And the library really does sound like a good fit. With any luck it will open some doors.

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    1. You are too kind! Thank you for your encouraging words.

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