We attended the outdoor wedding of our dear friends' son. It had been raining for three days and the forecast was not good, but the bride was determined to have the ceremony outdoors, "come hell or high water." Clear umbrellas were provided. The minute the music started for the mother of the groom to walk down the aisle, we had a downpour of rain that continued while all the bridal party, including the bride and her father, walked to the pergola. As the ceremony started, the rain let up and the sun began shining. As the bridal procession began afterwards, my husband and I looked at each other and started cracking up. The music playing was 'Nothing Beats a Jet2 Holiday.'
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I would say you did have a fabulous Spring!! What a fun way to really celebrate your Birthday month.
ReplyDeleteGood for you on making new friends. It is a bit harder when we're older, but you give me hope. That chocolate bomb looks absolutely delicious. Middle Child is so creative. Her fairy garden is adorable.
The wedding and reception sound lovely and I'm glad the rain cleared.
Keep living it up my friend, you look amazing!! I hope July brings just as much fun and joy to you.
It’s definitely more difficult to make new friends as we grow older, but totally worth the effort. My husband loves his chocolate, so when one of those bombs is on the menu, he gets excited 🤣. I’m super excited about our summer. I hope yours is wonderful!
DeleteYou've been busy! I like the arches in that coffee shop. They'd give a bit more privacy than most places have.
ReplyDeleteThose booths are great. I’ve noticed other Asian places have ‘honeycomb’ styled seating that is more private.
DeleteYou really have had a terrific springtime. I love the idea of making your own arrangement at a bridal shower; how fun! And dinner at Fahrenheit--love that place. The food is always so good, and you can tell that they care.
ReplyDeleteThe flower cart was so cute, and I loved all the thrifted vases of varying sizes. That was the first time I've had dinner at Fahrenheit, and everything was really good. I'd only been there for an after-dinner drink at the bar before and we had flaming baked Alaska, which was really fun!
DeleteI love this post so much, my friend. So many good things to comment on.
ReplyDeleteFirst, I'm so proud of you for making fun changes in your life! I love that you found two new friends - that isn't always easy to do at this stage of life. I'm so happy for you.
I love that your husband loves bird houses! This makes me happy too!
Six couples on rotation made me laugh so hard. 🤣🤣
I love your middle child without ever meeting her. She is my spirit human. Please tell her that I love her fairy garden so much.
That wedding! LOVE. I also love the clear umbrella idea- so smart.
I'm so glad we got another post from you! Enjoy your blog break! 😘
Honestly, May 2026 might have been my best May EVER! Just so many fun activities. I've been so happy to have two new friends, esp. the one who always has time to go to coffee shops with me! We are only a few months apart and she loves music as much as you and I do. It just seems like we have a lot in common.
DeleteWe probably have 7 bird houses now. All the other ones are traditional wooden ones. We have blue birds in one of them, which is really cool! I'm glad I made you laugh about the six couples on rotation. Gotta spread them out throughout the year! LOL!
Middle Child is a very unique girl. Everyone that meets her loves her, if they take the time to get to know her. I can't wait for a few upcoming trips, but I will pop in here and there to see what you're doing. XO
I'm impressed that you made two new friends. I have a lot of trouble making new friends. I'm also impressed that the son's bride was determined to have an outside ceremony whatever the weather. The David Byrne concert must have been good. I like the Talking Heads too.
ReplyDeleteIt can definitely be difficult to meet new people unless you really put yourself out there. The Talking Heads were (and still are) groundbreaking. I just can't get enough!
DeleteI'm a sucker for birdhouses too. Whenever we go to a vintage store, I'm always on the lookout. In fact, I have a mushroom one similar to your husband's. No birds in mine yet either, but it's in a high-traffic area out front. We'll see if anyone with feathers is brave enough to build a nest there. (By the way, I love the pineapple hummingbird feeder. I'd buy that in a heartbeat!)
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your "real" blog break and your upcoming trip out west!
That would be fun to find some vintage birdhouses. We seem to just get sparrows (or maybe they are wrens - I can't tell the difference) but finally got blue birds this year. Isn't that pineapple the cutest thing?? I can't wait to do some traveling this summer!
DeleteMay 2026 is definitely going down in the history books as a winner. First of all, your husband finding that mushroom birdhouse in the Aldi Aisle of Shame is incredibly relatable—that aisle claims another victim!
ReplyDeleteCrossing David Byrne off your bucket list, trying out speakeasy chocolate bombs, and celebrating your birthday downtown sounds like pure fun. Have a wonderful, relaxing summer trip out west, and enjoy the screen break!
That aisle is so addictive! Thank you for the well wishes and I hope you and yours have a marvelous summer!
DeleteMe too, my friend, I had a fabulous spring as well! For some reason, the flowers this spring were not only abundant, but their colors were exquisite. In fact, I'm still spending days outside taking photos. For some reason, with the intense winter weather we had, I didn't think spring would be that plentiful.
ReplyDeleteI think it's awesome that you (and your friend) try new locally owned coffee shops. I'm the same. I like trying different coffee shops in the city, just for the heck of it. Philly has SO MANY coffee shops. The city is filled with a plethora of coffee shops and cheese steak sandwich shops Lol! And I absolutely love that Asian coffee shop! Those seating areas are so cool-looking. Also, that shop looks incredibly clean and organized.
"Bonus points if they also serve delicious desserts, like this chocolate bomb." -- that looks INSANELY delicious.
Whenever I hear a song from The Talking Heads, I am immediately transported back to the 80s, which is one of my favorite decades for music, film, and TV shows. That show sounded A-MAZING.
That pineapple hummingbird feeder is adorable!
And how fabulous about the outdoor wedding! The weather angels were watching out for her!
It's true, because I work with all young'uns, and they always say to me, "How do you have so much energy at 70 years old?? You never get tired!"
Fun and fabulous post, my friend! As usual. The weather has been gorgeous here. Sunny and not too warm. I've been taking a lot of walks during the week.
Have a terrific weekend and blog break!
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I'm glad you've been enjoying Spring outdoors, too. It's always good to hear from you!
DeleteI've noticed so many coffee shops opening up lately, which makes me so happy. My only complaint is that most of them close around 2 pm. My husband and I have often wanted to go to a coffee shop after dinner with friends instead of a bar, but we can never find one that's open. Even Starbucks seems to shut down around here by 8 or 9 pm.
It's funny you mentioned not being tired because I rarely feel tired either. I think it's because I exercise and really cut out sugar and carbs. It definitely gives me more energy. I hope your summer is a good one, Ron! XO
Great post ...
ReplyDeleteIt looks and sounds a very good Spring... and it's always nice to make new friends.
I like the look of Middle Child's 2026 fairy garden.
Enjoy your blog break as you look forward to summer!
All the best Jan
The fairy garden is always a hit when we have friends on our deck. Have a wonderful summer, Jan!
DeleteLooks like a wonderful Spring! I attended a bridal shower where you could make a bouquet of flowers to take home. No vases though. I guess that must be the new bridal shower thing!
ReplyDeleteMaybe it is a new thing! I thought it was such a cute idea and my flowers lasted over two weeks. Everyone's creation was so different.
DeleteI love this update---so many good things happening in your life and I enjoy how you document and share them with us.
ReplyDeleteI had a HUGE giggle at the Jet2 holiday song! Hilarious. The reception and the afterparty sound delightful!
How fun that you are intentionally making friends and double dates. I really need to do the latter...we get so darn busy sometimes!
Wouldn't you love to dive into David Byrnes' brain? He's such a genius, so he must be totally weird too, right? I mean, OUR kind of weird, which is the good kind.
Happy belated birthday! I love the fairy garden and the pineapple hummingbird feeder; your daughter is a delight.
I'm glad you enjoy my updates, Suz. I love yours as well. I wonder how many people recognized the Jet2 music? Double dates are so fun!!! It takes effort, but we love catching up with other couples.
DeleteAfter hearing David Bryne speaking live, I'm fairly certain he's on the spectrum, which explains a LOT! He definitely thinks outside the box. When he introduced the song, 'And She Was,' he told how he wrote it in high school about a girl who was always 'happy.' He asked her why that was and found out she laid in a field by the Yoo-hoo factory in town and took LSD. If you listen to the lyrics, it totally makes sense. Crazy!!! And hilarious! Have a wonderful summer and I will pop in to visit your blog because I 'don't want to miss a thing!' :)
I am dying about the happy LSD user! Hilarious ~Suz
DeleteWow, Bijoux, you started summer with a bang. I'm exhausted just reading about it.
ReplyDeleteI heartily applaud your wonderful goals of making new friends and planning more double dates.
The David Byrne concert looks amazing. I had no idea that he was still touring and writing new material.
I love the pineapple bird feeder and I finally learned about the Aldi's Aisle of Shame. And the wedding seemed like quite an affair.
You have inspired to put the down the remote, retire my excuses and get my butt out the door.
I salute you!
Thanks, Rob. I hope your summer is a special one. Keep your eyes peeled for a David Byrne sighting!
DeleteSure looks like you had a good time. Lovely wedding and reception. I like bird houses too.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Mary. I hope your summer is a good one.
DeleteYou've been busy. The wedding sounds nice except for the rain, what a bummer. I like your birdhouses and your flowers. I don't know the musical group you saw, but am glad you got to it since it was a bucket list thing for you. Hope your blog break isn't very long. The ferry garden is adorable. I keep wanting to put one in the yard somewhere, but have thought about it now for several years and haven't done it. Never thought of doing it in a large planter.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Sandy. The fairy garden in a planter works well for us. We have too many squirrels and chipmunks to put on in the yard. They dig up everything! Have a wonderful summer.
DeleteA lot of fun Spring events and belated Happy 🎂 Birthday wishes to you, Bijoux. Your daughter did a very nice fairy garden, so kudos to her. Making new friends can be harder as we age, so glad to read about your new ones and going to the coffee bars sounds like fun. We only have a couple of coffee places in Nashua, NH.
ReplyDeleteThank you! Visiting different coffee shops has become a fun hobby. We have new ones pop up on a monthly basis, but we are willing to drive 25 minutes or so to get to them. I'm surprised you don't have more. Have a beautiful summer and I look forward to reading where your travels take you.
DeleteMy husband went to see that David Byrne show. He also loved it.
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Glad to hear it, Joyce!
DeleteThat does sound like a great spring! Good for you making new friends. I tell myself all the time I need to do that too, especially since my best friend moved to Georgia and my other best friend works 2 jobs, so girl time just doesn't happen much anymore. It's hard to make them as an adult, but I am getting to know my book club ladies more so who knows if friendships will blossom there.
ReplyDeleteThe pineapple bird feeder is so cute! As is the fairy garden!
The bride sure had a wedding one won't soon forget, it seems!
It's getting hot and muggy here, but thankfully the cool down period is on the horizon. People are already complaining about the heat and I'm like "shut it! In a few short months we're all going to be bundling up again just to go to the grocers."
I hope you do make a friend at book club. Does your spouse work with anyone who has a wife your age? That is how I found one of my new friends. I invited her out for coffee, and we found out we had a lot in common. It helps that my husband has always liked that particular co-worker.
DeleteLOL on the people complaining about the heat already. It's not like we don't have AC blasting everywhere we go! I'll take this over snow or 20 below temps anyday!
My husband works for me, so no luck finding friends through him LOL. I think it's hard for me because I had my kids when I was 19 and 23, so I was a young mom. The women I meet my age started their families later in life, so they are still doing the young children or have family life to work around. I don't have children at home or grandchildren yet, and I'm at a point in my life that I want to do adult outings without kids tagging along or even just sit in our living rooms and have conversation without a kid needing to interrupt every 5 minutes. I know that sounds selfish, but I've been taking care of kids since I was 15 and I just want to have a few years of not catering to littles before my own grandkids come along and I'm centering my days around children again. So
DeleteI totally get that, Theresa! I had my kids at an earlier age compared to now (26, 28, 31) and I'm still noticing the difference in life stages, as most of my friends don't have grandkids yet and many of their kids are not even married. When we go out with friends, some still have kids texting them asking questions! It's kind of annoying - LOL!
DeleteMaking new friends can be tough, but going on monthly coffee shop dates to find places like that cool Asian-inspired spot is such a fun way to do it. That story about the rainy outdoor wedding had me laughing out loud, talk about perfect comedic timing with the sun coming out right as the "Jet2 Holiday" music started playing! From checking David Byrne off your bucket list to enjoying those fancy date-night desserts and staying out until 1 am, you definitely proved that you can outlast the younger crowd. Enjoy your well-deserved blog break, and have a wonderful start to your summer.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Melody! Hope you are having a great Summer!
DeleteSorry I'm so late in getting back to comment. was reading here and there while creating the video for Curly. I hope your blog break is relaxing.
ReplyDeleteNew friends - that's amazing. I recently made a new friend too and we both keep saying that it's hard to believe that we just met. Feel like I've known her forever. The pineapple bird feeder is so so cute!
I'm glad to hear you found a new friend too! I'm meeting up with mine tomorrow to try out a new coffee shop and walk in a nice park. Enjoy the sun!
DeleteLate to the party, but a) that is a great dress, b) love the pineapple, c) rain on the wedding day eeeep, d) the fairy garden is delightful, and e) enjoy your break, my friend!!! Happy summer!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much! I'll be back to check in our you and your big adventures soon! XO
DeleteWaving hi as I make my blog rounds, and wondering what you're currently up to. Maybe catching your breath!
ReplyDeleteWaving hi, as I make my blog rounds again. Hope things are going well for you.
ReplyDeleteI love that hummingbird feeder! I've never seen a pineapple one before. Do you know where she got it?
ReplyDeleteThe flower cart sounds like a fun idea, and your bouquet is gorgeous. I always like party favors like that so much more than a bag of plastic junk that just gets thrown away.
Good for you for getting out and making more friends. That can be so hard as an adult, but life is definitely better with friends. I am so thankful for the friends we've made in our Silent Book Club.
She got it at Tractor Supply. It's a weird store, IMO, but they do have some interesting things. You should write about Silent Book Club! I've heard of those, but don't know anyone who's been in one.
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